"No-Show" Charge For Missing A Birthday Party Tacky Or Justified? You Decide!

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Here is a story most of you are probably familiar with. Kid gets invited to a classmate's birthday party. Parents respond with a resounding yes, but later realize they have a conflict and decide it's okay to skip the party without informing the host. End of story right? No, says this British mother who wants the errant party to pay for the cost incurred.

The chain of events that has led to this unusual request, which has made international headlines, unfolded in Cornwall, U.K., a few days before Christmas. Five-year-old Alex Nash was all set to go to classmate Charlie Lawrence's slide and ride birthday party at the Plymouth Ski Slope and Snowboard Center. However on the day of the event, his parents Derek and Tanya realized that Alex and his sister were scheduled to meet their grandparents and decided the boy would have to skip the party. While they thought about calling Charlie's mother, Julie, neither could locate her number. Besides, they really did not believe Julie would mind.

So you can only imagine their surprise when Alex returned from school on January 15th, with a brown envelope that contained an invoice for £15.95 (about $25 USD). Sent by Julie, it was the cost she incurred per child for the prepaid event that included half an hour on a snow tubing run, three toboggan rides, a hot meal, ice cream and balloons. Since Julie had to pay regardless of whether Alex showed up or not, she believed it was only fair that Derek and Tanya foot the bill.

Needless to say, Alex's parents are furious - however they say it's not because Julie is asking them to pay, but because of the way she did it. They assert that if she had called them, they would have happily reimbursed her the money. Julie on the other hand, insists that the Nash's should have let her know the minute they realized Alex was not going to make it and says that her phone number was clearly written on the party invite. What made her even more upset is that she had told all the parents about the prepayment requirement and asked them to confirm attendance, just a few days prior to the party.

As of now, the two are at a stalemate. Tanya and Derek are adamant that they will not play, while Julie is threatening to take them to court. Given the small amount involved, this feud is clearly not about the money but about etiquette. Julie is upset because Alex's parents did not have the courtesy to call her despite knowing that she would be wasting money, while Tanya and Derek are furious at the way she handled the request.

As is always the case with such debates there are proponents for both sides. Some believe that the no-show should be taken in stride and that Julie should just let it pass. Others think that people should display common courtesy even if the issue at stake is as trivial as a kid's birthday party. What do you think?

Resources: metro.co.uk, dailymail.co.uk

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  • TNOLESTuesday, January 5, 2016 at 12:49 pm
    I agree 100% id go to court and have this settled
    • 4ever9904
      4ever9904Wednesday, October 28, 2015 at 8:07 pm
      It's kinda weird but I understand the feeling of wasting money. $$$ Money is kinda important if you think about it.
      • bunnytech
        bunnytechFriday, October 9, 2015 at 1:45 pm
        That's not fair. Sure. They had to pay money. But the birthday kid should be the one happy hanging out with friends. That's how you actually are happy. But the parent had to make them pay?! That was just plain rude! Like, who does that??!!? Oh... Yea. The mean parent.
        • UjwalWednesday, October 7, 2015 at 6:29 am
          It's fair because someone shouldn't have paid extra just so that kid would not go to the party.
          • HeyoTuesday, June 16, 2015 at 3:00 pm
            This is just dumb. It's just a birthday party, gosh!! There is no need to go to court and pay money just because you don't show up to a birthday party.
            • Oman04Thursday, May 28, 2015 at 4:32 am
              That's completely fair, they shouldent have to pay $25 for you not to come.
              • abcdefghijklmno
                abcdefghijklmnoWednesday, April 15, 2015 at 5:08 am
                It's only 25 dollars and it ruined the kids relationships poor kids...
                • cleija
                  cleijaWednesday, March 25, 2015 at 12:41 pm
                  really that's just really wierd
                  • ChubsFriday, March 20, 2015 at 8:09 am
                    I would never pay that if I wasn't even there I would got to court because thats just dumd
                    • anonymusThursday, March 19, 2015 at 6:23 am
                      juile is ridicolus